tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post4491854511294897694..comments2023-09-27T13:57:03.650+02:00Comments on The Style Inside: working the crowdUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-64118317319988986022011-03-20T12:49:11.036+01:002011-03-20T12:49:11.036+01:00thats should be show offs !!thats should be show offs !!Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12764313206358464975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-38680087501369800992011-03-20T12:48:59.672+01:002011-03-20T12:48:59.672+01:00I am the one in my reltionship who does ALL the wo...I am the one in my reltionship who does ALL the work on the social front and most of my friends partners are the same. Sometimes it annoys me as I would like to take a back seat and survey from afar, but more often than not I would feel like I was missing out on an opportunity to meet interesting new people. <br />And as I say to my daughter when discussing quiet boys, 'the thing is, you can't have two shoe offs in a relationship'!!Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12764313206358464975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-39980857398719625702011-03-13T22:51:28.773+01:002011-03-13T22:51:28.773+01:00Well I would be a much more balanced person my dea...Well I would be a much more balanced person my dear kittycakes, if I had some of your calmness and consideration! Thanks for your super contribution. Love it!style insidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11674751288268323758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-53119104256290202222011-03-13T22:37:18.627+01:002011-03-13T22:37:18.627+01:00I think I'm your "minority" friend -...I think I'm your "minority" friend -- and more like Richard -- in that I tend to observe rather than engage. Which isn't to say I don't speak to anyone, but I tend to enjoy speaking at length/in detail to a few people, rather than briefly to lots. Although occasionally I feign extroversion if I feel inspired and can then work the room, though definitely not at your level of talent! :)kittycakeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03361904227344958422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-40963882072147157222011-03-13T22:12:36.725+01:002011-03-13T22:12:36.725+01:00I suspect my boy would cope, mainly as he wouldn&#...I suspect my boy would cope, mainly as he wouldn't spend time with anyone other than software engineers if it wasn't for me... ;)<br /><br />Unashamed flattery of oneself here is def allowed! =D<br /><br />XxxcCassiopeiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08486538663742244698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-76820170501080496752011-03-13T22:00:04.789+01:002011-03-13T22:00:04.789+01:00Thanks Cassiopeia! Brilliant! Sometimes I wonder w...Thanks Cassiopeia! Brilliant! Sometimes I wonder what *they* would do without us.... or do I flatter myself unashamedly? Cheers for your excellent comment.style insidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11674751288268323758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-24250236751028141992011-03-13T21:51:25.057+01:002011-03-13T21:51:25.057+01:00I have to admit, I'm definitely the one who mo...I have to admit, I'm definitely the one who moves forward and works the room. Other half is more of the strong silent type, who has a tendency to stand slightly behind me, looking grumpy at social gatherings... (Unless it's one of other software engineers / people who know one end of a power tool from another, in which case he's well ahead of me!)<br /><br />I am my mother's daughter in the way I approach people, so I guess I'm on the upbringing contributes side!<br /><br />Xxxc<br /><br />http://clothestohealabrokenheart.blogspot.com/Cassiopeiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08486538663742244698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-44962957248376724112011-03-13T20:13:06.879+01:002011-03-13T20:13:06.879+01:00I just LOVE these two comments! Thank you guys! Br...I just LOVE these two comments! Thank you guys! Brilliant! Keep 'em coming. xxxstyle insidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11674751288268323758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-19256764599214827412011-03-13T20:12:20.582+01:002011-03-13T20:12:20.582+01:00so that's A. u r talking about! I recall her t...so that's A. u r talking about! I recall her talking about doing that.<br /><br />mao and i were are the same about working a crowd. i do not do it for him, and he does not do it for me. but he is much more socially gifted, his EQ is so high, he gets al...ong with everyone, and gets everyone to feel ok.(at least that it what i see with him). i am still the stuck up bitch, but if i want to i can be very nice;). working the crowd is something i learned later in life. if you are really ok with yourself and secure of what you stand for, you draw attention, you have like an aura around you. prettiness comes from your personality not from your looks.dutchwomanabroadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5037927199228999461.post-35367926343683825802011-03-13T20:11:11.343+01:002011-03-13T20:11:11.343+01:00from Andrew in Quito: More often than not I do, an...from Andrew in Quito: More often than not I do, and I think I was raised that way: to be open, friendly and communicative. I don't think it's essentially the way I am. Nurture rather than nature? xAndrewnoreply@blogger.com